When Sex on Demand IS A Very Good Thing

There are times when sex on demand is a very good thing-- within marriage. Here are some of those times, by mutual consent:

• when the validly MARRIED couple wants to conceive a child, and there is no just/serious/ grave reason they should avoid conception. (see reasons. Janet E. Smith. p. 28 f)
• when charting of wife's cycle is well in place,  and she is NOT in her fertile time, when time, energy, and discretion allow, even when just/serious/grave reasons for temporary or indefinite postponement of conception do exist

Note: It's a very good idea to plan time away from the children, either by their going to Grandma's or Auntie's house or hiring a qualified babysitter to come in. A couple's going on a weekend or at least an overnight mini-honeymoon from time to time, as budget, trusted babysitters, and time allow is great for intimacy on many levels, sexual and otherwise.

• if a couple is infertile, (as after menopause or due to other natural biological reasons) then sexual intimacy strengthens, deepens, and maintains the couple's unitive dimension on many levels.